Grey clouds
hovered over the track like curious spirits, waiting for the charge of energy
that could remind them of life’s crisp brightness. Suddenly, it appeared, the bulging
crowd of children, and it was heading toward us with an alarming speed at its
feet. Faraway laughter grew louder as the boys and girls raced down the dewy
green hill to the track, their colorful tee-shirts already stained with the
sweat of anticipation.
“Fun!” their smiles cried. “Finally!”
It was field day.
The image of my daughter’s fourth grade class
sprinting down the hill from the school to the track on field day brought me
back to the easy joy of childhood. These children were thrilled to have just a
couple of hours off from the intensity of the classroom and strict rules of
upper elementary life.
School is not the simple institution that
it used to be. Today’s classrooms are jam-packed with language-infused math,
guided reading, and lists of detailed rules that even make some parents go “hmmm...
What do you think that one means?” There
are positive reinforcement programs, allergy action plans and behavior
checklists. Assignment binders themselves weigh a whopping five pounds and can
barely be stuffed into the giant backpacks the children carry around.
There are so many tests.
There are so many standardized tests.
There are so many really important standardized tests.
Growing up, I knew I had to finish my
homework before I ventured outside to play. At that time, fourth grade homework
took thirty minutes or less, so there was always plenty of daylight left after
I finished math and spelling. If my parents wanted to take our family on
vacation during the school year, they did so, without a second thought. My
brother and I completed our make-up work and caught up when we returned from
our adventure, never worrying that we’d missed the Science Olympiad or so and
so’s half birthday celebration that was the
event of the semester. As parents now, we have to fill out specific forms that
show the educational value of our vacations. If our children miss too many days
without doctors’ excuses, we are threatened with heavy fines and meetings with
the magistrate. Make no mistake - school is serious business.
Also, everything is online.
Everything.
From classroom newsletters to spelling
lists to report cards.
And if your wi-fi is glitching for whatever
reason on a particular school night, be assured that an anxiety attack the size
of Texas will ensue once your child realizes he or she is unable to access the teacher’s
virtual homework page. Especially if it was a prep exercise for the really important standardized test that’s
coming up.
As a child, I remember giggling through
fire drills, whispering with friends and shivering on the asphalt playground until
being ushered back inside for sustained silent reading. Today, there are
emergency drills that force elementary age children to imagine what it would be
like if a gunman entered their school. We need these drills. Sadly, this is the new reality.
Still, it’s a lot for our young children
to take in and carry around on their little shoulders every day. And this is
why I found myself relishing the happiness of the moment when the kids hit the
field for a day that was entirely carefree. Oh, how they needed this.
Rough red kickballs littered the fields,
evoking memories of being chosen last for the team. I pushed away the nervy
nostalgia and focused instead on the sheer pleasure that oozed from my daughter’s
face as she emerged onto the track with her grinning buddies.
The teachers were dressed down and ready
for fun.
The kids were chatty, competitive and even
a little unruly.
The water balloons were over-filled and
tempting.
What a perfect way to celebrate the end of
an effort-filled school year and the arrival of summer’s bliss.
Love this!!!!
ReplyDeleteErin